Love is not about falling for each other or having intimacy with someone on physical grounds. It's all about being with someone who ignites the spark and YOU instead of waiting for others to adore, fall in love with your own self. It's being with someone who reinforces your belief that life is a beautiful journey and you should aim high at the vibrant sky, someone in whose presence you realise you too have outstretched wings to fly!
They emphasize don't say Yes when you want to say NO.
I believe start saying YES even if your logical side says NO. Allow yourself to come out of your comfort zone, embrace the unknown with all it's pros and cons, start exploring new avenues and soon you'll find a New YOU!