If you are unable to hold
Just let go!

If you really want to give something to your children, Give them
STRENGTH to stand on their own feet,
POWER to keep themselves on priority,
CONFIDENCE to fly high by spreading their own wings,
COMPASSION to empathise others emotions,
WISDOM to make right choices,
UNDERSTANDING that the search of love and happiness ends within.

All what we have to keep in my mind is that we are not going to be on the stage forever. The drama will come to an end one day and all the characters will disperse. So let's decide to play our role with full commitment and dedication, as being a critic won't help much in improving our performance.
Remember only those stay in memories forever who gave their best, not the ones who kept discussing about the rest.

Everyone here is trying to prove
That he is the wisest and rest others are fool.

Teach your children by your actions not by your words
Or they'll soon be one of the sheep amongst the thousands in herd.

As long as you yourself can do
Never ask someone else to do it for you.